From Knowing Yourself to Showing Yourself: Unleashing Authentic Leadership

Laci Gatewood, MHA, MCPC, EQ-i 2.0/360 Avatar

Think about the best leaders you’ve ever worked with. They probably weren’t robots, right? They were real people – folks who weren’t afraid to show their passion, admit their mistakes, and connect with you on a human level. That’s the power of authentic leadership, and it all starts with self-perception.

Self-perception is like having a built-in GPS for your emotions and values. It helps you understand what makes you tick, what pushes your buttons, and what truly matters to you. When you’re tuned in to your inner world:

  • You make decisions you can stand behind: Instead of getting swayed by the latest trend or loudest voice, you make choices that align with what YOU believe in.
  • You walk the talk: No more faking it ’til you make it. People can tell when you’re genuine, and that builds trust faster than any fancy title.
  • You keep your cool under pressure: Understanding your triggers helps you manage stress, so you can lead with a clear head even when things get crazy.

Once you know yourself, it’s time to let that knowledge shine through in how you lead. Think of self-expression as your unique leadership voice. It’s about:

  • Speaking your truth: Sharing your thoughts and feelings honestly, even when it’s tough.
  • Standing up for what you believe in: Being assertive without being a bully.
  • Making your own calls: Taking ownership of your decisions, both the good and the not-so-good.

Now, let’s talk about vulnerability. It might feel scary, but it’s actually a superpower for leaders.

  • It builds trust: People connect with leaders who are real, not robots. Sharing your struggles shows you’re human, and that makes it easier for others to open up, too.
  • It sparks innovation: When people feel safe to be themselves, they’re more likely to share bold ideas and challenge the status quo.
  • It shows courage: Being vulnerable takes guts. And that courage inspires others to step up and be their best selves, too.
  • Check-in with yourself regularly: How am I feeling right now? What’s driving those feelings?
  • Practice speaking your truth: Start small, maybe sharing a personal story with a trusted colleague.
  • Ask for feedback: Get a sense of how your communication style is landing with your team.
  • Don’t be afraid to say “no”: Setting boundaries is a healthy way to protect your time and energy.

Remember, leadership isn’t about being perfect. It’s about being real, being you. And the more you embrace your authentic self, the more powerful your leadership will become.

So, what’s one small step you can take today to express yourself more authentically at work? Let’s hear it in the comments!

Laci Gatewood, MHA, MCPC, EQ-i 2.0/360 Avatar

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